Korean People - Korean Culture
Korea is oft dubbed "The Land of the Morning Calm"... Maybe in years past... Present day Korea is a country that never sleeps, though the morning is generally one of the calmest parts of the day. You can always find somewhere to go or something to do at any hour of the day.
Oddly enough, despite the chaos and cacophony there are places you can go even in the heart of Seoul where you can escape the fast-paced life and revel in the culture of Korea.
Korean people are generally a friendly playful lot. Moreso when alcohol is involved. They take great pride in their country and culture and are thrilled by any effort we demonstrate to learn more about them and their language. Any time I spoke Korean I was constantly befriended and given hugs and arms around my shoulder like that Korean person was my proud long lost brother. They would show incredible pride in ME for learning their language and they would take me under their wing and (because they were often older than me) I would be dubbed "dongsaeng" (little brother). This could occur at a bus stop, in a pub, on the top of a mountain, in a fishing boat, on a bus, literally wherever I was.
Koreans are often looking for a place to unwind and let loose. It's a fun, funny experience. Be open to this.
I remember the first time I took a bus trip to go skiing in Gangwondo. We left on a Friday afternoon - around 1pm. I was excited. It was about a 2 hour ride to get to the hotel. I was the only caucasian. The whole bus stared at me when I go on. Lots of smiles and "ohhhhs". Not all that different from the typical response I got wherever I went. Everything was pretty orderly until the moment the bus started moving. Bottle caps were popping everywhere, the tour guide started in on the soju and the microphone and by the time we were 10 minutes enroute, everyone but the driver was signing and drinking and celebrating in merriment. The bus was actually bouncing and swaying with the dancing and armlocked sing/swaying that was goign on. It was an absolute crack up. I have since been on many a trip and all have been the same. Karaoke buses are good fun.
When you get invited to join a group of Koreans for pretty much anything, go along with them, and go along with it. Koreans will invite you ALL the time to hike or fish or "mountain climb". Be approachable and you'll be amazed at the experiences. Koreans adopt the attitude work hard play hard. There will be times you are frustrated and you shake your head about the spitting or shouting and drunken tirades or the vomit on the ground on saturday and sunday mornings or the line ups that go out horizontally from the ticketing windows or the pushing and elbowing but calm down, take a deep breath and remember that you didn't grow up with this as a norm in your society.













